How Intelligent Men Find Love Offline (Meet Women Without Apps) by Eddy Baller Review

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review. All opinions are my own. 

Learn how to be confident and meet women outside of the digital world in author Eddy Baller’s “How Intelligent Men Find Love Offline (Meet Women Without Apps).”

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The Synopsis

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Tired of endless swiping, ghosting, and never matching with the women you actually want?

How Intelligent Men Find Love Offline is the step-by-step guide for men who want to meet women in real life—without relying on dating apps, cheesy pickup lines, or fake confidence.

Written by Eddy Baller, a men’s dating coach with 14 years of experience, this book shows you exactly how to:

  • Start conversations with women anywhere—coffee shops, gyms, bookstores, and everyday places.
  • Overcome approach anxiety so you can finally feel comfortable walking up to women you’re attracted to.
  • Recognize signs of interest and know when to move things forward.
  • Keep conversations flowing naturally without running out of things to say.
  • Build real attraction through body language, presence, and authenticity.
  • Turn first meetings into dates that can lead to meaningful relationships.
  • Develop a confident mindset that women notice instantly.

Whether you’re an introvert, busy professional, or someone who feels stuck with dating apps, this book will give you the tools to meet high-quality women face-to-face and create the kind of relationship you want.

Forget swiping. Forget waiting. Start meeting women in the real world today.

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The Review

This was such an insightful and engaging read. What made this feel unique and special as a dating book was how the book didn’t play into the typical  how to “get” women playbook that so many dating experts write about, but instead spoke on the need for confidence and respect a person must have when approaching the topic of meeting and possibly dating a woman. The author’s writing style was very conversational and honest, putting the reader at ease and allowing the message and themes of this book to sink into the reader’s psyche as the book went on, and the ability for the reader to be able to use the book in real-world scenarios and write down the exercises found within made the book shine.

Yet it was the balance the author found in both the negative drawbacks of online dating and the inspiring moments of real interaction that meeting people in real life can have. One thing that really rang true early on in the book is the author’s observation that online dating can sometimes give people a false sense of confidence rather than inner confidence, with real-world interactions either falling flat or not moving beyond a first date as a result. The author shares many wonderful insights into everything from looks and personality to behavior, including touching upon something that is sadly much more apparent in men thanks to online dating, which is unfortunately there are a lot of creepy dudes out there, and oftentimes men looking to distance themselves from those creeps can get in their own heads and end up in that territory by mistake, so it is important to be yourself and not micromanage yourself when interacting with people.

The Verdict

Insightful, compelling, and thought-provoking, author Eddy Baller’s “How Intelligent Men Find Love Offline” is a must-read nonfiction book on relationships and dating. The emphasis on confidence, in-person interactions and respect above all else will help many readers find their own confidence to go out in the world and start meeting people again. If you haven’t yet, be sure to grab your copy today!

Rating: 10/10

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About the Author

Eddy Baller is a men’s dating and confidence coach who has been helping men succeed with women since 2011. Based in Vancouver, Canada, he’s the only coach in Western Canada who offers live, in-person training with real demonstrations, where clients learn by meeting real women in everyday situations.

For over a decade, Eddy has coached men from all backgrounds to overcome anxiety, stop “nice guy” habits, and build genuine confidence that women are naturally drawn to. His approach is practical, direct, and based entirely on what works in real life—not theory or gimmicks.

He’s the founder of Conquer & Win Coaching, where he teaches men how to meet women offline—without dating apps—and create authentic connections that lead to real relationships.

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The Good Husband: How to Use Your Masculine Strengths to Benefit Your Family by Hagai Avisar Review

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review. All opinions are my own.

Author and counselor Hagai Avisar takes readers on a journey to understand what truly “masculinity” is and how it can be used not to control but to love and care for one’s family in his book “The Good Husband: How to Use Your Masculine Strengths to Benefit Your Family”.

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The Synopsis

If you feel confused and disempowered in your marriage, with the same arguments over and over, then The Good Husband is tailored for you. It will show you how to be at your best as a husband and father:

  • Follow a solid roadmap that taps into your masculine strengths. Apply the tools and exercises to start living out the four blueprints (archetypes) of your masculine identity: King, Lover, Magician and Warrior.
  • Get practical solutions to highly troubling problems such as lack of sex, angry partner, threats of divorce, disempowering your fatherhood and more.
  • Make your wife feel happier and closer to you by realising what she really needs from you when she raises young kids, and responding wisely to these needs.
  • Discover how you can get better responses to your important needs for purpose, appreciation, respect, and sex.

Your masculine power is your responsibility, not your privilege. Once you discover how your masculinity is a force for LOVE in your family, you will be inspired to use it confidently to benefit your family.

Written by a highly experienced psychologist and couple therapist, The Good Husband is packed with knowledge, insights, and strategies that are based on research, state-of-the-art marriage counseling, and decades of clinical experience.

The Review

As someone who has always felt a calling towards a more feminist frame of mind, I have always been wary of people who use the term masculinity to hide behind a mindset of control and lack of emotions in relationships. I respect everyone’s own perspective, and in that spirit wanted to delve into the author’s book and experiences with an open mind, and I am glad I did. The author did an incredible job of crafting a book and guide that showcases how a man can hold onto the things that he connects with that he feels make him a “man”, while also finding the balance to understand the feminine perspective as well.

The research and thoughtful approach the author had to this subject was both emotional and well-founded. The way the author not only identified the traits and aspects of masculinity that are important to understand but gave voice to the women’s perspective on these traits and why they are important to maintaining a relationship as both a spouse and parent were wonderful to see illustrated. The way the author was able to not only draw upon these experiences and lessons but show how to implement them into our daily lives made this a very compelling and enthralling reading experience and made for the perfect way to start out 2023 for those looking to improve upon themselves.

The Verdict

As someone who has always hoped to find a way of tearing down old ideas surrounding masculinity and instead finding a way of making masculinity healthy and in balance with femininity, I was pleasantly surprised and inspired by this book. Author Hagai Avisar’s “The Good Husband” is a must-read self-help and relationship-style nonfiction book and the perfect way to start out the New Year. The informative and insightful way the author was able to relay these lessons and the engaging way the author was able to connect readers to these experiences made this a brilliant story to get lost in. If you haven’t yet, be sure to grab your copy today!

Rating: 10/10

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About the Author

Avisar is an Israeli-born psychologist and couples therapist who has been in practice since 1987. Avisar moved from Israel to Melbourne, Australia with his Aussie wife and two kids in 1997.

With his passion to support young families, Avisar has specialized over the years in helping couples with their relationship issues. As an enthusiastic educator and therapist, he provides unique perspectives and effective solutions through counseling and workshops.

In recent years Avisar has developed an interest in helping men with their relationships. He says “There is an ever-increasing gap between the high expectations from family men and the poor support and empathy they receive from society. Public attacks on masculinity and men certainly don’t help these men”. Responding to this gap Avisar published in 2022 his book The Good Husband in which he offers married men guidance on how to use their masculine strengths to benefit their families.

Avisar has initiated and supported various social projects for parents and families. As an adoptive parent himself, he set up a network for adoptive families who raise children of Ethiopian origin.

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